Bullying, Affected by Serial on TV

Shocked. I'm shocked for the first time I heard about this thing. My sister is being bullied by her friend. When this thing firstly began? Dunno exactly ya but as she told me, since last semester in 5th grade of elementary school. Now she's in 6th grade. Yeah right it's just happened. I've just known this too. And I think it's really bad. Can you imagine an 11th-year-old girl can say such a rude word and be so temperamental? 

Bentuk bullying ada 3 yaitu :

* Fisik (memukul, menampar, memalak atau meminta paksa yang bukan miliknya, pengeroyokan menjadi eksekutor perintah senior).

* Verbal (memaki, mengejek, menggosip, membodohkan dan mengkerdilkan).

* Psikologis (mengintimdasi, mengecilkan, mengabaikan, mendiskriminasikan).

Bullying berdampak menurunkan tes kecerdasan dan kemampuan analisis siswa yang menjadi korban, bahkan sampai berusaha bunuh diri. Bullying juga berhubungan dengan meningkatnya tingkat depresi, agresi, penurunan nilai - nilai akademik dan tindakan bunuh diri.

taken from: http://edukasi.kompasiana.com/2010/07/15/apa-itu-bullying/

 Cuplikan betapa kasarnya kata-kata anak perempuan SD kelas 6

 Jadi tuh gini, Marsya punya temen inisial HQ. Mereka udah satu kelas since first grade and there's no rolling class each year. That's why they only know their own classmates. Terus temennya itu punya sifat yang bossy gitu, dia juga punya pengikut dimana kalo dia musuhin satu orang ya pengikutnya ikutan juga dan Marsya ini anaknya polos banget, gampang banget buat dibohongin atau disuruh-suruh atau di'lece'in sama temennya (apa itu 'lece'). Nah tau sendiri kan intinya dia dimusuhin sama setengah anak perempuan di kelasnya (atas dasar ngikutin the mother of gang). Sinetron banget ga sih? She told me once she had a fight with HQ was when she didn't want to go to school together because she had to look for the house until my mum came. Cuma gara-gara itu aja dia dimusuhin -_-. Nah itu sih biasa ya namanya juga anak SD. Nah terus kalo menurut cerita Marsya, one day dia chat HQ via FB, terus Mama nyuruh dia buat beli sesuatu di warung. Terus Mama baca chat nya dia dan HQ itu nah isinya tuh pokoknya kayak intimidate Marsya gitu. Mama ga suka terus bilang supaya jangan lebay. Nah kan ini si Mama ada-ada aja kan -_-. Dan bilang kalo ini mamanya Marsya. Yaudah kan tau si HQ itu temperamen banget jadi temen dan Marsya juga yang polos abis. Habislah dia di sekolah di mob sama temennya "Ngapain lo bilang2 mama lo! Pake ngatain gue lebay segala! Mulai sekarang ga usah temenan lagi sama gue! Dan gue bakal bilang ke temen2 buat musuhin lo juga!" Yah kira-kira sih gitu ya kata-katanya. Ya adek gue mah iya-iya aja *pasrah.


Jadi tuh di kelasnya dia, si HQ itu macem bos gitu lah. Nah sekarang aja jadi ketua kelas kabarnya. Udahlah makin ngebos aja kan. Terus dia mencap kelasnya itu jadi kelas 'Lolypop'. Nah loh itu kan nama geng di Putih Abu-Abu. Nah kan ketauan suka nonton sinetron ~,~. This is one of the bad effects of watching sinetron in Indonesia for young viewers. Gimana engga? Ini anak-anak SD kenapa coba jadi keracunan ngatain orang 'kamseupay' 'iyuh-iyuh' 'rakjel' dan mencap dirinya 'geng Lolypop'. *sigh* Padahal jelas-jelas di sinetron itu yang namanya geng Lolypop itu ga bener, ga jelas, dan FREAK kalo kata gue. For more info about the story of the serial, please change your channel into SCTV at around 7pm. Anak SD itu ga ngerti dan ambil aja enaknya. Mungkin dengan begitu mereka jadi berkuasa dan bisa menindas orang yang ga nurut sama mereka dan ga mereka suka. Aduh ada-ada aja deh sampe sekarang gue masih ga habis pikir.


Di sini si Marsya ini jadi kaum tertindas di kelas, yaaa dipanggil 'rakjel' gitu deh a.k.a. rakyat jelata. Itu juga masih ada kaitannya sama sinetron tadi. Jadi si Marsya ini macem si Nina kalo di sinetronnya. Unfortunately, there's no boy fight back for her like in TV hufty ciaaannn canda ya Ca ^^v. Ya kalo di sinetron kan si cewek hina dina yang ditindas itu kan selalu ada savior nya dalam bentuk prince charming yang juga disukain sama penindas yang pada akhirnya yang ditindas lah yang menang setelah beribu-ribu episode. Apalagi kalo rating tinggi. Sampe di bikin season Ramadhan malah .___. Sekarang makin banyak aja tuh sinetron anak-anak yang ga jelas settingan selalu di sekolah tapi keliatan belajarnya jarang. Pacaraaaannn mulu. Rebutan cowok lah, balas dendam lah, berantem lah dengan sebutan-sebutan aneh, dan ga jauh-jauh >>> HEDON. Haduh tiap hari sinetron kayak gitu merajalela. I prefer FTV lah than sinetron. FTV has less drama and the story seems real dibanding sinetron. Out of topic. 


In short, Marsya is being bullied verbally. In her class, she's abandoned by half of her girl friends. But she still has a friend, fortunately. I can say, yeah this thing happened also because of my Mum. But Mum just can't stand if her child is abused by her friend although it's just verbally. She afraid if it can disturb the school activity or worse, Marsya's mental. Yeah we don't know maybe because the bully, Marsya feel alone and doesn't have friend. And then would do things out of our minds would expect. My Mum already talked about this with HQ's mum and her mum also didn't believe it at all. She thinks her daughter is a nice girl. Yeah she's nice, but she turns into evil at school Ma'am -_-. Now as long as HQ isn't doing rude things to Marsya, it's just it. Marsya still doesn't play with 'Lolypop Gang'. And as long as HQ doesn't disturb Marsya in any kind of school activity, we're okay with this enmity. Just focusing for the last year of elementary school and getting the best junior high for Marsya. Good luck for you my dear lil sist :* your family on your back! I personally am still hoping if they can be a friend like they used to be. So they can end the elementary school happily.

Lat but not least, one thing I would say, I was so grateful that until now I never feel alone and abused or bullied or something like that. Instead, I do really truly love my SD friend! They made my every single day in 6th grade. And until now we still keep in touch no matter how far we've been apart <3

Young and Free
NAS - XOXO